Aries
(March 21st to April 19th)
They
begin to close you off, even though they won’t be confrontational until
it’s necessary. When an Aries is in love, they want to share every
tiny, stupid detail of their lives with you, and they want to know
everything that’s happening in your mind. Aries are super
straightforward with their intentions. If you have to wonder whether or
not something’s wrong, something’s wrong.
Taurus
(April 20th to May 21st)
They
become overly-invested in making their lives appear as “happy” as
possible. The excess to which they’re trying to perfect their Instagram
feeds or re-do their living spaces is proportional to how unhappy they
really are deep down. Tauruses are aesthetic, visual, social people, so a
lot of their happiness comes from how things appear, and how they
imagine other people perceive them. They will rely on this more and more
when they aren’t being fulfilled in some other way.
Gemini
(May 22nd to June 21st)
They
will be an actual, flailing mess, except it will be over absolutely
everything *but* your deteriorating relationship. They’ll be struggling
at work, crying for no reason, freaking out at friends, all because they
don’t know how to handle the fact that they really aren’t happy. A
Gemini will not be subtle about being unhappy, but they will be
indecisive. They’ll try to pin their discontent on everything else but
love, until they have no choice but to face reality.
Cancer
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
They
become petty. They talk about how unhappy they are to their friends,
make passive aggressive comments here and there, and mostly, they do
everything they can to release their pent up unhappiness without having
to actually address or fix the reason *why.* Cancers are lovers at
heart, so when their sweetness begins to turn sour, you know something
is up.
Leo
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
They
become aggressive and then dismissive. Leos who are secretly unhappy
are pretty brutal, because their internal confidence comes from their
sense of self, and when something in their personal lives isn’t aligned
with their deepest truth, they become very insecure, lash out, and
eventually just start trying to move on.
Virgo
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
They
try to throw themselves into anything that will distract them. Virgos
are passionate by nature, but they’re also easily paranoid. So though on
the surface they like to come off as “chill,” if they’re deeply
immersing themselves in some part of their lives beyond normal, take it
as a cue that something’s off in another part of their life.
Libra
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
They
become obsessed with work. Libras are the lovers of the zodiac, but
they’re also workaholics. Remember that they are the sign ruled by
scales, and so when a Libra unbalances their lives by throwing
themselves into one thing, it’s because they have to counter the
discomfort they feel in another.
Scorpio
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
They
either refuse to commit, or start freaking out about things that are
completely unrelated to the problem. Scorpios are the most intense sign
of the zodiac, and when they’re secretly unhappy in a relationship, they
honestly won’t be able to carry on with it for long. Their emotions
will rip through them too quickly.
Sagittarius
(November 23rd to December 21st)
They
become passive aggressive. They have outbursts that seem to come out of
nowhere, or inappropriately channeled fits of anger. On the surface
they maintain their light, humorous, adventurous nature, but they can
only bite their tongues for so long. Watch for loaded jokes or offhand
comments.
Capricorn
(December 22nd to January 20th)
They
try to control *everything.* They try to identify the problems, and
work on them even if in reality, the relationship probably isn’t
salvageable. They overly identify with the relationship (the
relationship becomes their life). Capricorns don’t like not knowing
where they stand, and they *really* don’t like feeling ungrounded. If
they’re not really happy, they’ll start buckling down more than normal
to “fix” it.
Aquarius
(January 21st to February 18th)
They
come up with big, grandiose dreams and goals and actually pursue them.
They move to other countries, begin businesses or start other impressive
ventures. Aquariuses are driven, work-oriented people, but when they’re
unhappy in their relationships, that tends to go into overdrive. A key
indicator that they’re secretly unhappy is that they won’t give up any
of their time for you, or they say they just have to “focus on their
career” even if by all other standards, they seem completely in love
(they’re actually not).
Pisces
(February 19th to March 20th)
They
just want to be “free.” They want to experience everything life has to
offer, and all of a sudden have an interest in just roaming the world
and “seeing what’s out there.” They may claim that they love you, but if
their imaginations begin to wander past building a life with you,
they’re not completely happy deep down.
source: thoughtcatalog